Derek Sivers is one of those guys who’s popped up all over the place but who I’ve never really followed. Until now. I recently scanned and read through a pretty decent chunk of his archives….

[Note: This whole post is an oversimplification, as usual. Sure, some guys my age are getting married. But the overall trend…] Guys my age want girlfriends, not wives. Here’s why: Their friends aren’t married. Their heroes…

When someone tells you to follow your dreams, they don’t realize that your dreams, if followed, will impact other people. They assume that since your dreams probably won’t affect them personally, your dreams won’t affect…